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My parents wont give me money!!!?


Ok.. all my life my parents said that education is my future, and that through thick or thin, no matter the cost, they will always provide me with whatever expense necssesary for me to succeed. so now i turn 18 and i have a job where i have been makiig money and paying all my expenses. also i have been giving my parents about $1000 to help pay the mortgage. now i found a tutor for the section 7 exam( certification to be a financal advisor) and need $900 to pay for the courses. i asked them for the $900 and i got a big fat angry no!! WTF??!!?!?!?!?!?!!!?!!?!?!, i also brought up the fact that i have been making killer growth for thier investments, as i manage them, and i said that is becoming problematic for me to keep up with that with work, and college and they said well i have been nothign but problemaic for them since i got my lisence and got into a accident!!9which was no fault, btw))) what kinda $hIt is that!!!!!!?!!??!?!??!?!?!??!?1?1/!?!??!!...

i have been giving then the 1000 monthly, for just over 1 year and a half now, i have been bpaying for college, clothes and car for the last 6 months. I have also been making money in the markets for me, but that is money i dont touch because my finances are in order. Ihave never asked them for money for any "education eexpense" or anythything.

every think of moving on with you life and i mean moving on -- quit helping them and move out on your own!!!

sorry for not answering your question but I dont feel like reading. How do you ask a question?

Okay, how have you been giving your parents money to help pay their mortgage? It sounds to me like you've got enough of a job to pay your OWN way now. Grow. Up.

sounds like your on your own dude!
Did you maybe ask at a bad time? sometimes that could be the difference between yes/no

that's just them saying we dont have the money or we they just stingy...

Seems like you a responsible individual. Try to save what you can and get you on place even if you have to get a roommate. Why are you helping pay their mortgage, that is their responsibility unless you helping the bacause they are having a hardship at the moment and are pitching in. If not give them a weekly amont to stay there and find a place of your own. Also accidents happen, thats why they call them accidents. Your ok I assume, that should be a good thing for your parents. If you can't keep up with your work, stop managing their investments for them. If they want you to still do it for them, charge them, your making them money, if you weren't doing it, they would have to pay some one anyway and would have to pay them more. Or just stopped managing and consentrate on you schooling as you need a degree in todays world to at least start at a living wage.
Good luck in your future.
p.s. You might also try for some scholarships,grants or student loans

OK, now that you've got all that off your chest (I think you've worn out your !! and ?? keys), try thinking of it this way:

You've been giving your parents $1000 to pay their mortgage? How often? Monthly? Annually? You're 18 years old and you're expecting your parents to just hand you money. Oh, and you handle their finances? So where are yours? And you've been paying for all your food, clothes, car and electricity, phone and living expenses since you were four years old? Wow.

So you expect your parents to fork over money because you want them to? Education is important-- yes. Doesn't meant they have the cash to hand over. And because you've been making "killer" growth for them, perhaps you should have done it with your own.

They might have given you a mixed signal, but you're acting like you have a right to everything, when you are certainly not telling us a whole story here.

Sorry, sounds like you need to grow up a bit.

My parents have been a little weird with this stuff too. =) Try asking again but with a plan. Make up a proposal that shows your intent to repay the loan as soon as possible (even though they said no to giving you the money, they may go for a loan), and be sure to point out what you have done to earn their trust on a financial basis IE. paying $1000 to help them with the mortgage, managing their investments, etc.

A few questions (maybe to bring up politely with them) why are you paying their mortgage and managing their investments, putting their finances and future ahead of your own?
Maybe just skip the next mortgage payment to them and pay for classes yourself? I would definitely save some money towards getting into a place for yourself, maybe finding a roommate.
Btw, sometimes fault doesn't matter, it didn't when my parents still had to fork over money to fix the car after my accident =)

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